Back at work... Bla!

So I'm back at work after a nice holiday! It was a bit short, but I did get to spend time with some friends and go to the beach.

A bit of news, I'm now single... After a gradual deterioration it seemed fair on both of us that it can't go on! Sigh! I must say that even though he won't read this (hopefully), that assuming that my answer to the question 'Is it worth it?' Is the same as yours, isn't very nice! Ohwell, move on I guess!

So now that I can focus on me, and not what is wrong with my relationship (which is pretty draining!!!), I am going to do exactly that! Going to spend the Easter weekend just chilling on my own, weather permitting lying by the pool, gym and a good bottle of wine (I gave up alcohol for lent, and have been longing for a nice glass of cabernet sauvignon for a while now!).

3 months to go :-)

What a lame day! Simply put

Song of the Week :-)
Annie - Safetysuit

Stephan :-D

I need a holiday :-D

So today I realised I really really need a holiday! I need to get away and just clear my mind for a bit, so that I can focus on what is important! 2 weeks holiday here I come!

Work was rubbish today, had clients that just rocked up at random with out making appointments expecting undivided attention....WTF seriously???

To ponder on the key of prudence? Wtf

A friend of mine was asked today to ponder on the key of prudency... ok and that means? Did some research just to the clarify my understanding of the question....

Prudency - "Foresight, wisdom, and personal discretion.", "Caution in practical affairs; discretion or circumspection.
Seneca, the Roman Stoic, said that perfect prudence is indistinguishable from perfect virtue. Thus, in considering all consequences, a prudent person would act in the same way as a virtuous person.

A virtuous person is an example of moral excellence and righteousness.
The key to prudent planning is to learn from ones life experiences.
So in my assumption the answer to the conundrum is that you need to think on past experiences to guide your future to a greater cause which is morally sound? Please tell me if I'm wrong?

Found the most depressing song line ever:

"At night, I come home and turn the key. There's nobody there, no one cares for me." Run to You - Whitney Houston

Another proudly South African Stud!

Turmoil

So today I feel a bit strange, spoke to a friend today who is in the same field as I am and he has really made a success of himself! I'm 24 in 2 weeks, and I feel like I haven't achieved much in my life! You may say that I'm young and have the rest of my life ahead of me, but I don't feel that way! I feel like there is motivation, but a lack of means! I don't want to study for the rest of my life, but I do want to study further! Sigh... What to do... Stuck in my current position for the next 9 months... So will see what I can do!

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Yip Yip Yip....

So today was a good start to the week, got to gym early... (and forget my work clothes haha), work was good and hopefully will continue to be a good week!

I was having a conversation with my best friend today about guys, and she said to me that when you find the one that you truly want to spend the rest of your life with that you don't look around? Is this true? I mean, I've dated but I've always looked... I mean I'm dating now and I still look?

Anyway, this is Steve Meyer, South African born rugby player who recently retired from rugby! :-( very disappointing day for rugby and for us viewers haha!

Twas a good weekend!

All in all it was a good weekend! Worked Saturday, which did end up being profitable ;-) and then hung with some friends (Hint: Pizza and a merry go round makes you sick!). Woke up late today and just chilled for a bit, needed to do house work and washing so spent most of the day with that. Its strange how much brain power is used to do house work... not necessarily focused on the house work, but on everything that could be done that might be more fun haha!

A couple photos of TJ Coetzee to brighten your Sunday ;-)

Well tomorrow I plan on starting an intense gym and diet program... time consuming and tiring but hopefully get the results I need!

All the best for the week!

Need to start being more intellectual and philosophical!

I love my job :-)

Working with athletes makes me happy! For the most part!

It was a good day :-P

Another Day, Another Carrot....

Yes, I am working on a Saturday! It should be fun though, something different for a change!

A home-grown South African model and medical student ;-) that's how we make them!

My First Post....

So it took me a while to get here, but finally I am ready to start my blog! You think I'm joking it honestly has taking me about a year to start this, mostly because of circumstances! But I'm here and hopefully this will become a daily updated blog (Will see how far that gets)!

I am a 23 year old gay guy from South Africa, first year out of university and for the most part I'm loving life! Surrounded by awesome people, mostly women which does get a bit much at times! Oh and if it matters I'm a closet case for the most part!

Hope you enjoy!

I have a thing for legs haha!

P.S. Most of the pictures I'll be posting are from other blogs or that I've found on the net! But I will try get some new material!