I
haven’t blogged for a while. When life seems to be the best it’s been in a
while, one feels like it isn’t necessary to put things in writing to let the
world know. You hope that people can see your happiness and share in it.
Written words and actions are quite different…
I
think that I blog not only to share what I feel with the world, but also to
remind myself of what I’ve been through and how I felt. I’ve been judged
before, for being so open and for the pictures that go along with the blog. I’m
open, because people can learn from what I experience, not because I want to
put in writing every detail of my life, but to give people the hope that things
can change. Change isn’t a bad thing, it allows us to adapt and create the
destiny through which we achieve what we are meant to and not what other people
expect us to be. The pictures are because all men are visually stimulated and
we appreciate beautiful things, nothing more.
People
shouldn’t expect us to be good, to do the right thing and act a certain way. We
should want to do these things out of our own free will, because we want to.
The
past week has been an emotional roller coaster. Every conceivable emotion I
have ever felt I experienced. I think sorrow was the most dominant. My heart
felt like it was ripped from my chest. A friend described it pretty accurately,
“It leaves you feeling like your gut has been ripped out and someone has stuck
their arm up through your chest and punched your heart.”
A
facebook friend posted this today and it pretty much sums up how I feel…
"Unless someone like
you...cares a whole awful lot...nothing is going to get better...It's
not." Dr. Suess
The Oxford English Dictionary defines
forgiveness as 'to grant free pardon and to give up all claim on account of an
offense or debt'. This I do freely, because I know there is a better person
inside most people that they don’t always allow to show. Forgetting however, that’s
the difficult thing to get right. When we see someone, hear about someone or
even remember someone that has done us wrong, it reminds us of things that they
have done. It’s weird though, when even though someone has torn your world
apart, you can’t but help look at them and remember the good things they have
brought into your life.
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