I have been catching up on glee the past couple days. I only
ever watched the first season and the first episode of the second season. For
whatever reason, I just didn’t carry on. It sounds so trivial. Watching glee.
The thing is however when you really pay attention to what is being said and
how people react to situations, you are able to learn. Not only about how
people interact, but also about yourself and how we understand our interactions
with others.
If you watch glee, you’ll understand what I’m getting at.
The one scene for example, where Brittany and Ardie break up can be seen from
different viewpoints. I spoke to a friend about it and the only thing that she
remembered about the scene is that Artie called her stupid. I’m not negating
what he called her. But what he said before that was quite profound:
“… That there’s one other person in your life that can
provide for you things that I’m supposed to provide, it’s just too much for me
to take…”
Relationships and friendships aren’t meant to be complete
and infinite. But the person you are sharing parts of your life with should
make you feel complete and whole. A
relationship should be a place where things are shared in an environment of
love and warmth without judgment or fear of not being what you are supposed to
be. A place where you can ‘just be’….
Wow… Almost at 100 posts... Better make the next couple good ones…
